There’s no such group as “They”

One of the most extraordinary things about many of us is our ability to blame other people.  Eavesdrop on a conversation at a water-cooler, coffee machine, or whilst wandering around a store and, eventually, you will hear someone blaming somebody for something.  Clearly, in many cases heaping opprobrium on another individual is app...

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Conversation and the art of listening

The other day I was sitting on a train on the London underground reading my book.  Next to me was a young lady immersed in reading her Kindle.  After a few stops I heard a voice say: “Is it good?” I realised that it was the lady next to me asking me a question.  It took me a while to register that she was initiating a conversa...

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Man of letters